#5: Debate something with a friend.
Situation: You have coffee with a friend every Wednesday. Next time you meet, suggest a debate on a topic you are both familiar with but you share different views.
Agree to a few guidelines. Raised voices are ok...no screaming. Remember, healthy debate creates tension which you may need practice controlling. An argument can be constructive as well. Agree to continue each side of the situation unless one of you is annoyed to the point of losing control. Either party can call a halt to the "debate."
If you don't have a person to debate, challenge yourself. Pick an issue you feel passionate about. Then ask, "What about another position?" Go to the bookstore or library and research the issue. Find what political, or religious influence that ignited the issue. What happened after? How did the issue change society? How did it change you?
Either way, you will exercise your brain to the point where you may find an entirely new approach to an issue. You may also learn more about a friend than you ever expected. Plus, you may have one less regret in life.
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